The Black Womb-man’s Womb is Heaven, for She is the Creator of Life, Mother/God the Queens of Afrika..

15 - 1 (1)In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other: “Do you believe in life after delivery?” The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.”
“Nonsense” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?”
The second said, “I don’t know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can’t understand now.”
The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is to be logically excluded.”
The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it’s different than it is here. Maybe we won’t need this physical cord anymore.”
The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover if there is life, then why has no one has ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.”
“Well, I don’t know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.”
The first replied “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That’s laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?”
The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her this world would not and could not exist.”
Said the first: “Well I don’t see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn’t exist.”
To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you’re in silence and you focus and you really listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice, calling down from above.

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Here’s How to Treat Your Husband Like a King

Most of us want our homes to be a place of refuge, a place of tranquil peace, rambunctious excitement, and romantic moments. We want a home, not just a house. We want a place where our mate is well taken care and comfortable.

This article focuses on taking care of our husbands like a king. Don’t worry; this is a two-way reciprocal view. So, look out for the article on how to treat HER like a QUEEN because the castle of every married couple, needs a King and a Queen. This in no way means that one position is subservient to the other, but rather that both husband and wife have an honorable position that is full of value and worthy of respect.

Study Him

Right from the start let me make it clear; this is a research project that you must undertake. I cannot tell you what specifically causes your mate to feel respected, well cared for, and honored above the rest of the men in your life – to feel like a King. This is where the research comes in.  Research and observe what makes his heart sing. Discover and make note of the little as well as the big things that cause him to know and feel that he is number one; the king of the castle.

Make Him a Priority

Place him before your children, boss, pastor/church, parents and friends. Attending to the needs of others is necessary, but should not take away from your marriage.With all things being balanced, the marriage covenant trumps all other relationships.

Invest in Him

Remind yourself this is the man with whom you chose to spend the rest of your life.

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He is the product of your wonderful independent choice. See the things you do for him as an investment in your beautiful future together.

Never stop learning your man. He is the same person he was when you married, yet over the days, months, years, he has continued to grow and evolve. Grow and evolve with him. Allow what matters to him, to mean something to you.

How do you treat him like a King in his castle? Observe, study, converse, connect, listen, and connect again. Then execute what you have discovered. If you were taking a $2000 college course, wouldn’t you do your best to study, complete the coursework, and pass the class?  So why not invest this and more in your marriage? Your marriage is a part of your life’s work.

Your husband is a non-ending ever evolving specimen that you can continue to learn from every day. Learning him will better your marriage, encourage him, and equip you.

Just as you are the queen, treat and respect him as the king. Here are three basic questions to get you started in your discovery process. Find out things such as:

  1. What respect means to your mate?
  2. What does he prefer after a long day at work?
  3. What does being sexually satisfied mean to him?

Remember this is your research project. Queen, I speak to you and I say enjoy the research. Have fun getting to know your mate day by day and year by year. Remember the two of you are on the same team, striving for the same victory. It takes a strong, bold, confident, and courageous woman to do this work and you have within you what it takes.

Your man has so many facets to him. There is no time to waste or get bored.

BMWK – Share your thoughts are you still learning your mate?

Here’s How to Treat Your Wife Like a Queen


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The home of every married couple needs a king and a queen. You are the royalty that resides within your home; a home with one King, one Queen, and possibly some little princes and princesses. Your home is your place of sanctuary. It is your castle.

Now, every king should take good care of his queen, just as every queen should take good care of her king. How do you do this? What does this picture look like?

This picture will be different for every couple. That’s the beauty; the picture you paint is uniquely yours. By treating her as your queen, you hold the brush, the paints, and the strokes of this masterpiece. Make no mistake; she is a queen regardless of your treatment. However, the masterpiece you are creating together in your home is beautiful sight when each person is doing their part.

So King, I encourage you to paint a masterpiece with many colors. Find out what allows her to experience being your queen. Is it the:

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  • affectionate way you speak to her?
  • small things that you do?
  • financial security you help to provide?
  • way you build her up and make her feel like she can do anything?
  • way you make her feel like no other woman exists beside her?
  • way you protect her against all outside forces?
  • small things you remember with her best interest at heart?
  • perfect combination of all of the above? Each of your expressions of love paints something on the canvas of her heart.

Please know what you are painting on her heart. Dig deep, figure out what she values from you. Don’t stop digging; she is an endless well of beauty, grace, power, and strength.

If flowers are not her thing, what is her thing? What size dress does she wear? Is she included in making all financial decisions? Does she receive, “I’m thinking of you gifts” or is she only thought of in this manner on holidays and special occasions?

These are questions to get your thoughts moving. For a portion of the male population these things come naturally. For the other portion it has to be an on purpose effort until it becomes more natural. If it means something to her, it should mean something to you.

She is your queen. It is a position of honor and royalty. Find out what that means to her and then execute on what you find.

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